
Hello Men,
Take this quiz. Do any of these statements apply to you?
- I believe that my partner is the source of my sexual fire.
- I sometimes ejaculate sooner than I’d like.
- In my sexual experience, orgasm equals ejaculation.
- After sex, I usually feel drained and depleted, not refreshed and energized.
- The best thing about sex is when I’m giving my partner a lot of pleasure.
- In bed, I have trouble asking specifically for what I want from my partner.
- I don’t know what to do with all of this sexual energy I have.
- I spend more time with pornography than I think is healthy for me.
- I’m beginning to think my “nice guy” strategy isn’t working for me, inside or outside of the bedroom.
- I get the sense that there’s more to sex than I’m experiencing.
If you said "yes" to any of these, you could benefit from attending the Sexual Energy Mastery (SEM) for Men training program.
1. Sexual Energy Mastery is about you receiving from you. Learning to give to yourself first puts you in right relationship with those closest to you. It’s also an essential piece of the broad base you need in order for you to fully give all your gifts to the world.
2. You are naturally a fully orgasmic being. You’ve learned otherwise during your time on earth so far. As you release blocks and restrictions — the boulders and rocks in your energy “stream” — your natural, original energy will flow.
3. Only a small percentage of being a great lover is about mastering a technique to please your partner. You'll have much greater success (connection, pleasure, and intimacy) simply by being alive in your skin, present, agenda-free, and surrendered to Source as it moves through you.
4. The key to unlocking greater bodily pleasure is to use the energy contained in the genitals to move beyond a genital-based experience. There are a number of ways to do this; finding the best way or ways for you is what the Sexual Energy Mastery program is all about.
The SEM training program brings together practices from a number of disciplines, including those outlined in Mantak Chia’s Cultivating Male Sexual Energy, Margot Anand’s The Art of Sexual Ecsatsy, and David Deida’s The Enlightened Sex Manual. Other modalities include dance, movement, and voice work. You’ll learn body-opening practices that you can accomplish on your own; explore the 3 keys to orgasmic energy; practice the “ME” breath (to delay ejaculation) and the “YOU” breath (to ground yourself and open your partner to the Divine.)
Every man is capable of mastering his sexual energy. This training program is your chance to unlock your natural mastery in a safe, focused environment.
You’ve been waiting for this opportunity.
Just say yes!
A note from Jim Benson, the group's facilitator:
Guys, I’ve put everything that I know about tantric practices for men in an easily assimilable program that will change your sex life for real. I’ve tested the latest and greatest multi-orgasmic techniques and I’m including the best of those practices as well. And the men who've participated in this program in the past have gotten great results.
I believe this work is healing medicine for the planet. Men who take greater responsibility for their sexuality and pleasure automatically begin to take greater responsibility for their entire lives. Are you one of those men? Come and experience greater ecstasy in your world, and help change the whole world, by mastering your sexual energy.
I hope to see you in the group.

Testimonials from guys in past groups:
"After completing Jim's training (at the age of 63), I had an incredible full-body orgasm with my partner. We are both thrilled, and are looking forward to more! Thank you, Jim, for your guidance and inspiration. Your presence helps me feel and act like the vessel of love I want to be."
—Charles Bookoff, M.D.
"This course is a real breakthrough in applying ancient tantric wisdom to increase men's sensual pleasure — and by extension, women's. I have literally doubled my own pleasure during this course, with further increases as I continued to apply the skills I learned there."
—Michael Hagerty, professor, UC Davis
"Jim is a fabulous coach in this training. You can read books and watch DVDs about increasing pleasure and multiple orgasms, but you won't really get it until you've circled with other men and been held accountable with these powerful practices."
—Brad Neuberg, software genius
This program is hosted by AuthenticWorld in San Francisco. Here are the details:
- You do not need a partner to learn the skills taught in this training.
- There is no nudity during the training sessions.
- No previous experience is required.
- The three training sessions are three hours long, and are held once a month on a Thursday night.
- Participants will be asked to practice at home between training sessions and track their progress with a "pleasure" journal.
- A conference call to answer questions and concerns is scheduled between sessions, also on Thursday night.
- A "buddy" program will be offered for men who want more challenging accountability for their practices during the off weeks.
Cost: $275
Session Dates: Thursday August 12, September 9 and October 7. Sessions are from 7-10 PM.
Conference calls: Thursday August 26, September 23 and November 4. Conference calls are from 7-8 PM.
Location: South of Market in SF.
Watch the promotional video and register for the program here.

